ok im trying to remember the name of this movie. it came out probably late 90's early 00's and wasn't really big either. its a romance and the main character guy has black curly hair, kinda fat and i think wears glasses. i cant remember the chick. OK so the guy is an artist and the chick meets him by going to his gallery opening and shes with someone else but he's an asshole. and they end up getting together and they move in together and they get kittens. and they break up and date other ppl for like a year. and then they end up falling in love again. please dear god if someone can get me the name of this movie. its driving me mad. its been on my mind for about 2 weeks i saw it a year ago on like some obscure channel in the middle of the night it was already old then. so plz someone know this movie!!! >_<

I don't have the slightest clue.
But it does sound familiar.